Start From The Bottom– What’s Your Here??

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So, I don’t get a chance to listen to the radio much, but one song thats getting major air play, that I’m feeling is, “Started From The Bottom” by Drake. I interpret this song as a celebratory ode to the “rags to riches and bottom to top” rise of Drake. Hence, the chorus, “Started from the Bottom- Now I’m Here!”

In life, we all  most of us have goals and dreams, and we have to start from somewhere. Some of us start on 1st base, while others start on 3rd base; some of us start with a silver-spoon in our mouth, while some of us start with a plastic spoon (fork, spoon, and knife combo pack); some of us start in the suburbs and others in the hood’; some at the “bottom,” while others at the “top.”

Irregardless of where we start, I believe all of us have a purpose, “top,” promised land, final destination, and “here” that we’re supposed to reach and achieve. I believe our “Here” is a measure of our success, we made it moment, and result of our hard work. Once again, no matter where you start, I encourage you to grind, hustle, pray, go get it, work pray, plan, implement, revise, learn, pray, and press to whatever and wherever your “Here” is!!

Started From The “……………..,” Now I’m HERE!!!

-RevBMack

Do enough leaders “AIM” their employees??

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So every week, Monday-Friday, Target, the company that I work for has what is called a Morning Huddle. Our huddles always begin with recognition, which is the opportunity for the employees to recognize others for something they did on their behalf to help them, assist them, or encourage them. Next, we share information on store sales, store updates, and store initiatives. Lastly, there are times when I will a 60 second motivational tid-bit.  

So, from my experience at Target, I wonder how many companies, churches, leaders, etc. take the time to AIM. Affirm, Inform, and Motivate. 

Affirm

Everyone, at least folk whom I’ve met, desire to be affirmed about their gifts, contributions,  personality, value they’ve added to interpersonal relationships and their work environment. So affirm them for doing so. Affirm with kind words, cards, gifts, and token(s) of appreciation.

Inform

As leaders, we should always be in the business of informing people. No leader worth his/her salt should desire to keep people ignorant. Relevant information not only makes the employees or parishioners more knowledgable, but ultimately it impacts the overall organization. I’d rather have an organization of leaders, than followers.

Motivate

One thing I love about the Church is its ability to inspire and motivate people to action. Each organization should have the ability to motivate its people, if the leader can’t do it, then it should have someone in house that should, or bring folk in from the outside to motivate. People love to be motivated. Americans love to be motivated to do something that matters.

I hope in the future you AIM (Affirm, Inform, and Motivate)

BMack

Leave the LIGHT On!!

Motel 6 is infamous for their catchy slogan, “We’ll leave the light on for you!” What that means is really not the purpose of this post. I just like the idea of the “LIGHT” always being on! Which means, at any time I decide to stop by a Motel 6 after dark, the light should and better be on.

I’ll be honest, Motel 6 is not my hotel of choice. I don’t remember the last time I stayed in one, desired to stay in one, or considered staying in one. However, after thinking about their slogan/tag line, I’ve realized that the Motel 6 ideology actually lines up with my theology. LOL, that rhymed, and who said rapping was hard.

Moving on….when I read my Bible, Matthew 5:16 encourages us to “Leave the LIGHT ON!” It says, “In the same way your light must shine before people, so that they will see the good things you do and praise your Father in heaven.” 

So this is my appeal to you, whether your a Christian, Muslim, Buddhists, Atheist, or belong to the Church of Scientology, we ALL have a LIGHT to shine. To quote Mos Def, “Umi says, shine your light on the world.” The world can truly benefit from your LIGHT! Heck, your LIGHT, could spark my LIGHT. Your LIGHT could help and heal someone. Your LIGHT could inspire someone! Your LIGHT could give hope to someone. Your LIGHT matters!

So, if your a social worker, engineer, preacher, writer, janitor, speaker, president, teacher, student, mother, father, son, daughter, blogger, publicist, athlete, lawyer, doctor, bus driver, truck driver, singer, dancer, maid, chef, poet, nurse, steel worker, coal miner, or

African American, African, Caucasian, Asian, Native American, Hispanic, or

Delta, AKA, Omega, Alpha, Kappa, Sigma, Iota, or

Republican, Democratic, Independent, or

Upper, Middle, Lower, No class, or

just YOU……Do us all a favor and

LEAVE THE LIGHT ON!!!

P.S. Shine Baby Shine!

Remove the Band-Aid

(These are random musings and this is not edited for grammatical errors.)

So as I was in the shower this evening, I happened to wash my face to aggressively and popped a pimple that began to bleed (Yea I know, TMI). So immediately, after the alcohol applications, I placed a Band-Aid on it. Thinking in advance, as I tend to do, I know that I can’t leave this Band-Aid on too long, because it’ll begin to get that grunge look­. You know that look– the black dirt that gathers around the edges. So, to avoid all of this, this Band-Aid comes off in two days MAX!!!

Have you ever left a Band-Aid on for too long? Too often, not only do we leave them on too long to cover of physical blemishes, but also emotional, mental, relational, financial, operational, institutional, and etc. We get in the habit of leaving short-term fixes on too long! It might be okay to do patch work and Band-Aid for a quick sec, but not for weeks, months, and years! Substituting one addiction for another one is not good, if you never probably dealt with the addiction. Going from relationship to relationship is not healthy, if you don’t deal with the emotional issue at hand. I could go on and on.

So whether it’s a marriage, job, addiction, house, car, goal, we all need to Remove the Band-Aids. These are a few of my thoughts on this healing process…..

  1. Assess your Resources
  2. Remove the Band-Aid
  3. Apply the appropriate Resolution/Remedy

Morning LIFT… “I Do It For…”

Have you ever asked yourself why you do it? Well, I’m asking you right now, why do you do it?

The thought that sparked this piece is the song I Do it For Hip-Hop by Ludacris featuring Nas and Jay-Z, in which each of them artistically express in their own style, why they do what they do. See the video link at end of paragraph to listen to the song for yourself (listen at your own risk). I Do It For Hip-Hop

So why do you write? Why do you teach? Why do you coach? Why do you play? Why do you sale? Why do you preach? Why do you advocate? Why do you do what you do?

Whatever you do, do it because you love it! Do it because your passionate about it! Do it because it makes a difference in the lives of others! Do it because its a labor of love! Do it because its your purpose! Do it because of your calling! in the words of Nike, Just Do It!

BMack

Reflection of the past month

(Not edited for grammer miskaest) LOL…but seriously This is a free-write, so there may be a few grammar errors/mistakes.

So a lot has transpired in the past few months. Things are really improving at St. Matthew AME, worship has gotten much better, my preaching has got better, and old members are starting to come back. I’m really excited about the worship though. There is a lot that still needs to be done here at the church and in the community, I’m just asking the Lord to guide me, send help, send help, and anoint the ministry at our church.

I’ve also gotten married, yep May 26, 2012 I married my love, Erica M. McAfee. A brother is blessed, sho nuff! We did a cruise for our honeymoon, which took us to Grand Cayman Islands and Cozumel, Mexico. We had a blast on the cruise.

Not only am I married now, but I’m also about to be a father. WOW!! I’m excited to be a soon-to-be father, but I’m also very nervous about what it means to be a father. I’m excited though!! Erica and I are both excited! It goes to show that the Lord will surely give you what you ask for. I have my lovely bride, child on the way, and a church….you can keep the dog and the picket fence, I’m good!

-RevBmack

Can these Bones Live? The Multi-Ethnic Church

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Recently I’ve been thinking about the possibility of leading a multicultural and multi-ethnic church in an urban area. When I first expressed the idea to my fiancé, her first thought was much like mine, “How can you do that? Don’t you need a White, Hispanic, Asian, or wife of another ethnicity?” I don’t know, do I? Now, I’ll be honest, I don’t have any hardcore statistics at my disposal right now to quote, but I do have my opinions, observations, and experiences to draw from. With that being the case, it seems as if pastors of African descent who happen to be in a monocultural marriage, have a very difficult time attracting, retaining, and leading other ethnicities, especially our White brothers and sisters.

Do people of other ethnicities, especially Whites trust Black leaders to shepherd them? Well before I go there, how about this, do they trust black leadership in general? Let’s use President Obama for example, while it may be only one example, I think it is a glaring one. President Obama has arguably been the most disrespected and undermined president in our history. He was a called a liar during the 2011 State of the Union Address, “chastised” by Governor Jan Brewer of Arizona, accused of being a modern day Hitler, attacked with racial slurs, and had just about every proposed bill and agenda challenged and/or struck down. Why all the hatred, resentment, and anger towards our Black president?

Now, lets look at our churches and the diversity in our worship. Martin Luther King Jr. said “it is appalling that the most segregated hour of Christian America is eleven o’clock on Sunday morning.” Sadly things haven’t changed much, according to The Multiracial Congregations Project led by Michael Emerson, a Rice University sociologist, only 8% of all Christian congregations are racially diverse in America. Only 8%, wowzers? Just in case you were wondering, a racially diverse church, is at least 20% of people other than the majority culture. From my experience and observations, the majority of churches that are multi-ethnic tend to be led by White pastors. Heck, I’ve even witnessed majority Black congregations led by White pastors. So, I’m sure you’re asking; well, why is that the case?

In my opinion, the reason that Whites can seemingly pastor multi-ethnic congregations much easier than their Black counterparts is because of the normative of White male leadership. Whites have historically been slave owners, been President(until now), been CEO’s, been coaches, been mainstream media personalities, been doctors, been lawyers, been judges, been bankers, been middle managers, and been just about every leader you can think of. In my opinion, because our world is so accustomed to White leadership, the very same expectation presents itself in the church, especially in those that are multiethnic.

So, what’s the solution? First, we need to have open dialogue about race in America, because its alive and well, there’s no getting around it. In addition, I firmly believe that Blacks, Whites, Asians, Hispanics, and all of God’s children in America need to desegregate ourselves. I mean really desegregate and do so with true equality and fairness. Minorities need to teach White children, coach White children, supervise White adults, lead White adults, pastor White people, legally judge Whites, defend Whites, financially advise Whites, manage Whites, medically care for Whites, pastor Whites, and vice-versa. If we’re ever to become a post-racial, we need these sort of things need to take place, and I believe the temple, mosque, synagogue, and church can lead the revolution

It takes a Village,

RevBmack

I “Fit the Description!”

A few years ago, I was leaving my neighborhood park at dusk and I had a “fit the description experience.” I was walking back to my house after playing a few games of pick-up basketball. On that evening something odd happened to me, I was stopped by two Prince George’s County police officers. They asked me where I was coming from, what I was doing, where was I going, my name and my address; they said I fit the description of someone they were looking for. Sadly, in America too often black men coincidentally always end up “fitting the description,” just because our complexions are black and brown.

I’m reminded of this event in my life, because of the recent murder of the 17 year-old #TrayvonMartin in Sanford, FL on the night of the NBA All-Star game. No I wasn’t stopped by a over zealous watch captain and, obviously, nor was I shot and killed, but like him that night, in the eyes of a white man with a gun and a notion of power, I too “fit the description.” Black and Brown men all over this country have been fighting this perceptive “description” for way too long; we’ve fit it driving while black, shopping in retail stores, going through airport security, patronizing a nightclub, as athletes, as entertainers, and fatally while walking in our own neighborhoods. Like you, I wonder what the “description” entails?

So now, as a result of #TrayvonMartin’s death, pastors, politicians, celebrities, pundits, radio personalities, and just about everyone who has heard about this story and has an ounce of compassion, are speaking out for justice to be served and the arrest of murder George Zimmerman. With the use of mass media and social media outlets the story of #TrayvonMartin is being brought to the forefront of our timelines to spread awareness on the negligence of the Sanford Police department and their handling of this murder case. It is my hope and belief that, with the national media attention that this #TrayvonMartin travesty is receiving, justice will be served!

Now with that being said, let me also encourage all of us to continue with the same passion and fervor for justice and accountability when black on black murder occurs as well. Too often, as a black community we find ourselves up in arms when a person of color is wronged by an individual of another hue; resulting in marches and protest that garner strong results. Just imagine the kind of impact that can be had if we used these same methods of protest and advocacy in our own communities to stimy the drug dealing, domestic violence, crime, and murder that pervades in our own communities. I sincerely believe that these same efforts being used to bring justice for #TrayvonMartin can be used to #LIFT our communities.

It Takes A Village,

Brandon McAfee